I’ve got a few e-mails regarding my new phase of life. I am in a jeopardy now, I share less of my private life and more of my mindful-life. But because of your mails, I’ll share a brief account of the events.
I’ve got engaged on June 20.
Usually, I don’t remember the dates much; but still, for the sake of the timeline, I’ll mention it here.
On 21st March, I attended an engagement ceremony of my cousin brother. When in the functions, I tend to be an extrovert. In that engagement ceremony, I voluntarily chose to wash the feet of my new Vahini (wife of my cousin). This privilege usually goes to the youngest brother of the groom of the family, but I stole it. Earlier, they had presented her (Vahini) to me for a marriage proposal. I had rejected it. Now she is marrying my cousin brother – stupid marriage system, awkward. To break the awkwardness and the future barriers, I chose to wash her feet. I was teasing my new Vahini in the feet washing ceremony; and I was having fun with all the people. I was jolly at that time. After washing the feet, you have to bow to all the people (we call it Ram-Ram). Every feet washer feels shy while doing it. He does it in a very low voice and in a snap. I did it laughingly and having fun, calling Ram-Ram to the individuals too. My Ram-Ram went for 5 mins. I know, I was the center of attraction. I owned the function.
In that ceremony, I got an at least 10 marriage proposals from the relatives.
My soon to be the fiancée (now fiancée) was overwhelmed for me. Her family was overwhelmed for me.
In the after-hours of the ceremony, my Mothi Aai (Elder Aunt) introduced her to me. Mothi Aai teased, “Will you marry her?” I pierced directly into my fiancée’s eye, I flirted back, “I’ll take her right away.” Fun times. Nobody was serious.
So, it began…!
Intermittent details aside, we got engaged on this 20th June.
Our Wedding is fixed for the Dec 1st.
My fiancée is from Wardha City. She was selected for B.Arch, but instead she chose to pursue arts. She had been studying Bachelors in Fine Arts from Hyderabad. She has completed her final exams this summer, after being our marriage fixed. She is an Artist, truly. Here’s her rangoli. This is a generalized art though, she is damn awesome on Digital Drawings, 3D Modelling, Animated Drawings and Perspectives, Mandala Art, and Mathematical Visualisations. She is pretty young (she is 21 only), so she doesn’t have much of her art portfolio organized, but she will soon.
Do you know this my dear readers? She doesn’t even know that I have a personal website. She doesn’t even know about my battles and wars. She doesn’t even know my deaths and resurrections. She doesn’t even know that I killed myself every moment to be what I am right now. She doesn’t even care too…! She is a free bird. Workouts, Meditations, Readings, My Journeys – All the efforts to fight against my lost youth – she brought my youth back.
I believe in co-incidences, I believe in the synchronicity of this Universe, I believe in providence. Remember this post, here I wrote – “For He answered every single test I gave, even to the tiniest details.” He truly has answered everything to the tiniest details.
Cheers and Adios… … …!
Here’s our engagement photograph.
God has answered every tiny detail, yet another detail.
Nov 30th, few years back, a part of me had left me. My wedding is fixed for 1st Dec.
1 Dec comes the next day of 30 Nov…
Haven’t I told you that I believe in co-incidences and synchronicity?
He has answered even to the Tiniest of the Tiny Details… … …